tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6185359764481159335.post4586162109075282376..comments2024-03-27T19:49:02.045-05:00Comments on Encouragements From the Piper's Wife: Thoughts on gossipThe Piper's Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17509697472567235161noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6185359764481159335.post-82098647019707216112016-03-07T15:55:37.983-06:002016-03-07T15:55:37.983-06:00Oh Jill, believe me I do understand! I think we&#...Oh Jill, believe me I do understand! I think we've all been there! I get flustered as well, at times, when faced with abusers, and I often am tongue tied myself. It's always easier to think clearly when one is removed from the situation, isn't it? <br /><br />But so true, to have a friend with you who can assist you in keeping perspective, that would be a huge help! So let's help each other keep perspective when we can.<br /><br />-CarolynAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6185359764481159335.post-14286971320732849562016-03-07T15:40:14.361-06:002016-03-07T15:40:14.361-06:00Carolyn, I absolutely understand!
I was being s...Carolyn, I absolutely understand! <br /><br />I was being silly because certain abusers tended to fluster me, and I may not think to say the right thing until much later... so if I could "take you in my pocket" the next time :o) you could remind me who I am dealing with, and then I would think clearly ~ not wait till a decade later.The Piper's Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17509697472567235161noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6185359764481159335.post-34975133612978833842016-03-07T07:59:36.429-06:002016-03-07T07:59:36.429-06:00You're welcome, Jill, and haha . :)
Truly,...You're welcome, Jill, and haha . :) <br /><br />Truly, though, I'm sure you're equally familiar with the unspoken "don't talk rules" that are sometimes "enforced" to hide abuse and keep victims silent.<br /><br />-CarolynAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6185359764481159335.post-42453051242105064062016-03-06T19:03:30.701-06:002016-03-06T19:03:30.701-06:00Thank you, Carolyn, for your astute comment.
Ca...Thank you, Carolyn, for your astute comment. <br /><br />Can I take you in my pocket next time?The Piper's Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17509697472567235161noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6185359764481159335.post-23165467793952947372016-03-06T18:57:02.694-06:002016-03-06T18:57:02.694-06:00I would add this: "gossip" is often an ...I would add this: "gossip" is often an accusation leveled at abuse victims who are trying to seek help and counsel. It's a means of trying to make them be quiet, and not bring the wicked deeds of the abusers to the light.<br /><br />-Carolyn<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com