If this is you then you are either the abuser or the abused! Choose now to stop and honor God, not men!
Suppressing God's truth is full of legalisms and lies, it is evil.
If you are caught up in it you need to get away from it! If you are enslaved in it you need to cry out to God for His forgiveness and freedom from it!
"For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven
against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men
who suppress the truth in unrighteousness,
because that which is known about God is evident within them;
for God made it evident to them.
For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes,
His eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly seen,
being understood through what has been made,
so that they are without excuse.
For even though they knew God, they did not honor Him as God
or give thanks, but they became futile in their speculations,
and their foolish heart was darkened.
Professing to be wise, they became fools"
"The wisdom of the sensible is to understand his way,
But the foolishness of fools is deceit.
Fools mock at sin,
But among the upright there is good will.
The heart knows its own bitterness,
And a stranger does not share its joy.
The house of the wicked will be destroyed,
But the tent of the upright will flourish.
There is a way which seems right to a man,
But its end is the way of death."
So change your mind,
change your life,
stop being drawn into their web of lies.
Shall we sin because we are not under law but under grace?
May it never be!
Do you not know that when you present yourselves to someone as slaves
for obedience, you are slaves of the one whom you obey,
either of sin resulting in death, or of obedience resulting in righteousness?
But thanks be to God that though you were slaves of sin,
you became obedient from the heart to that form of teaching
to which you were committed,
and having been freed from sin, you became slaves of righteousness.
I am speaking in human terms because of the weakness of your flesh
For just as you presented your members as slaves to impurity
and to lawlessness, resulting in further lawlessness,
so now present your members as slaves to righteousness,
resulting in sanctification.
For when you were slaves of sin, you were free in regard to righteousness.
Therefore what benefit were you then deriving from the things of which
you are now ashamed? For the outcome of those things is death.
But now having been freed from sin and enslaved to God,
you derive your benefit, resulting in sanctification,
and the outcome, eternal life.
For the wages of sin is death,
but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord."